Girls born into a patriarchal society become either shrewd or sick.
lk 161
Ready meant having an internal narrative about what it means to be a woman that they could weigh against the world’s narrative. I did not have an alternative narrative as a child, so when the world told me that a real girl is small, a quiet, pretty, accommodating, and pleasant, I believed that this was the Truth.
lk 161
Those who made the phones are creative people, and they want their children to become people who create, not just consume.
lk 158
Maybe Eve was never meant to be our warning. Maybe she was meant to be our model.
lk 122
What women want is good. What women want is beautiful. And what women want is dangerous, but not to women. Not to the common good. What women want is a threat to the injustice of the status quo.
lk 121
If your desire feels wrong to you: Go deeper. You can trust yourself. You just have to get low enough.
lk 120
We can either control ourselves or love ourselves, but we can’t do both. Love is opposite of control. Love demands trust.
lk 116
We can either control ourselves or love ourselves, but we can’t do both. Love is opposite of control. Love demands trust.
lk 116
So, we do not honor our own bodies, curiosity, hunger, judgment, experience, or ambition. Instead, we lock away our true selves. Women who are best at this disappearing act earn the highest praise: She is so selfless.
lk 116
When a woman wants more, she defies God, betrays her partner, curses her family, and destroys the world.
lk 115
Because our culture was built upon and benefits from the control of women. The way power trolling group is by conditioning the masses to believe that the group cannot be trusted. So the campaign to convince us to mistrust women begins early and comes from everywhere.
lk 114-115
It takes special bravery to honor yourself when the crowd pressuring you not to. It’s easier just to give in.
lk 106
Sometimes being brave requires letting the crowd think you’re a coward. Sometimes being brave means letting everyone down but yourself.
lk 105