Perhaps part of a woman’s freeing herself is freeing her partner, her father, her brother, and her son.
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Perhaps part of a woman’s freeing herself is freeing her partner, her father, her brother, and her son.
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In a misogynistic culture, all that is needed to label the feminine. Then we can forever discount them in women and forever shame them out of men. Ta-da: no more messy, world- changing tenderness to deal with.
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Because disallowing the expression of these qualities is the way the status quo keeps its power.
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The problem is that the parts of themselves that our boys have been banished from are not feminine traits; they are human traits.
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We train boys to believe that the way to become a man is to objectify and conquer women, value wealth and power above all, and suppress any emotions other than competitiveness and rage.
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It’s a lifelong battle for a woman to stay whole and free in a world hell-bent on caging her.
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Ready meant having an internal narrative about what it means to be a woman that they could weigh against the world’s narrative. I did not have an alternative narrative as a child, so when the world told me that a real girl is small, a quiet, pretty, accommodating, and pleasant, I believed that this was the Truth.
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Those who made the phones are creative people, and they want their children to become people who create, not just consume.
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Maybe Eve was never meant to be our warning. Maybe she was meant to be our model.
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What women want is good. What women want is beautiful. And what women want is dangerous, but not to women. Not to the common good. What women want is a threat to the injustice of the status quo.
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If your desire feels wrong to you: Go deeper. You can trust yourself. You just have to get low enough.
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